You're Fired!
Our president-elect rode this phrase to astounding heights. Recent news
reports indicate that he still wants to ride the wave by continuing as the
Executive Producer. Why are we so
enamored by this gut wrenching statement?
Is it schadenfreude or a power play?
Rather than brush it off we have decided to examine how this mindset has
manifested itself in four major areas of our personal and professional lives.
Marriage
Our wedding vow of “until death do us part” is proving to be
too high of a bar. Divorce statistics
show that 50% of marriages end in divorce after less than 8 years. Are we too quick to pull the divorce rip
cord? I propose that we supplement til
death do us part with let’s bring in an experienced professional to help us
work out our problems. An experienced
professional will help you understand that your struggles are not that unique
and they will establish a detailed plan to get you out of your rut.
Sports
At the end of every season we watch as coaches are given
their walking papers. Is this another
area where we give up too fast? Upon
further review I vote yes. Seems like
the most successful teams the San Antonio Spurs, the New England Patriots and the
Alabama Crimson Tide all have tenured head coaches. Might be worth further review.
Financial Advisors
Warren Buffet invests in companies with no intention of ever
selling them. Compare that to the average holding period for other “investors”
which has dramatically
fallen from eight years in the 1960s to five days currently. Our
hair-trigger approach has insured poor performance and guaranteed
disappointment. Most wealth managers establish policies for
their clients based on the long-term (defined as 10+ years). My anecdotal experience over my 28 year
career is that much like the decreasing investment holding periods wealth
management clients are prone to firing money managers and ultimately firing
their wealth advisor before their 10 year plan can run its course. We have also noted that tracking the number
of times a client checks their account balance online, using Google Analytics,
is a good indicator of how nervous a client is and a good reminder to give the
client a call to address any concerns before the concerns grow to a level that
needs to be addressed by firing the advisor.
Our Jobs
Looking at our own LinkedIn profile and our friends’ profiles
shows an average three year tenure at each job.
This reality is confirmed by a BLS
study showing that the average person will change jobs 12 times in their
career. Most of the changes are
instigated by the employee but some are the result of being fired. Looks like our restless nature rears its ugly
head in this area of our life too. The
outlier, a Wall Street stock broker, has a significantly longer job tenure of
seven to nine years. What is Wall
Street’s secret? Big money and
restrictive employment contracts.
How can we exterminate
the ants in our pants? Our advice is
to start by examining our behavioral mistakes and establishing timelines that can
help you avoid quitting too soon or even worse yet getting fired.
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